welll, I have liked this boy named josh for a long time, we've been on& off since like the begining of the year (06), he liked me the first two semeseters& I didn't like him, then I realized I did& stuff, so we dated for a week in january& I broke it off because his best friend lied to me& said he cheated on me, I don't know why but I now found out he lied, like a week ago. but anyways on to my point, he has dated three other girls now, (abby, nikki,& alex) abby is his most recent ex,& after he& nikki broke up he went out w/ alex,& then he dumped her& we of course started talking again,& he told me he would ask me out in 1O days& when they 10th day came he didn't ask me out& he said it was because he "didn't want a girlfriend", but he really met abby that night through a mutal friend,& he liked abby I guess, but him& abby just broke up a few days ago& when I found out I ended it w/ my current fling because I am like inlove w/ this kid, & today I was just sitting at the computer& he called me, he just talked to me for like 45 minutes, it was great- do you think that because he called me he likes me or wants to start talking again? because he literally had not talked to each other since him& abby started dating, which was a month ago, maybe two. :/ do you think he likes me again? or atleast he wants to be friends..
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Cux answered Monday August 6 2007, 2:00 pm: I think Josh is a player. Straight up. Not even kidding. He's told you over and over that he will ask you out or whatever- but then goes out with someone else. Seriously- he's playing with your emotions- and any guy that does that isn't worth it. Really- there are plenty of guys out there that you would probably consider WAY BETTER than this Josh guy. I suggest you find one that won't play with your heart.
Anyway- I think that he may want to be your friend again for calling you. I certainly don't think that calling someone means that you like them. Going above and beyond normal friendship things means you like someone- not calling them.
Maybe give Josh one more chance and if he can't stop toying with your emotions- then you should find someone new. Remember- everyone deserves second chances- but not third and fourth.
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