so since your boy i sort of need some advice from you. i like this one guy and he said that he likes me too. but that was at the beginning of the summer. we would talk on the comptuer but everytime i would say something about hanging out he would just say idunno. but this other girl would ask him and he would say yah just call me up. Then i figured whatever ill just make the plans and tell him if he wanted to come her could. then he would of course have something on that day and couldnt. and now i havent talked to him in about 2 weeks or so. i am so confused about him and dont really know what to do. i need a guys point of view. anything would be a big help. please =]
Thanks for asking to my inbox- I appreciate it! =D
Anyway- if he's reluctant to hang out with you- he might:
-Not want to hang out with you because he doesn't like you.
-Not be able to hang out with you at the time you ask him- and then realizes that he can- and is only able to hang out with someone else [its a possibility- though its a stretch].
-Not have the courage to hang out with you because he likes you too much.
I think the 3rd option is very common. He could very well like you- and he just can't strike up the guts to hang out with you because he's too embarrassed. Maybe try talking to him and asking him to be honest- and then ask him what's up. You will be surprised the way a guy will open up to you when its just you two alone. Guys aren't as anti-sensitive as girls make them out to be.
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