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BOYFRIEND TROUBLE!
first thing. me and by boyfriend are 13. (in 5 days i will be 14)
ok, ive been going out with someone for 10 months. I really love him. (hes my first boyfriend, and he's had other girlfriends) He had some kind of cancer (ok, i know im not the best girlfriend b/c idk what it was.) and his parents are divorced. his mom is married again and has 3 kids... my boyfriend sometimes acts really immature because hes used to hanging around his brother and sisters (ages 4-7). but other times he acts really mature. when i want him to act mature hes not!
We barely ever kiss. and the only time we do, he just gives me a peck on the lips!!! I'm not sure what to do. I really want to kiss more and i want him to act more romantic (not like sex or anything.)and we never hold hands! evryone last year of school was saying "You 2 should hold hands". he asked me if i cared, and i said not really, then he said if you want to, we can. but i was to nervous to say YES (because he is my first boyfriend.)! HE ACTS LIKE A LITTLE KID HALF OF THE TIME!!! when we talk on the phone, we barely talk, hes just watching tv most of the time!!! or speaking random nonsense!!
Please, what should I do? and im sorry if this is a long explanation!
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I know you want to cuddle and be very close to him and kiss him a lot, and he probably wants the same thing, he might be doing the exact same thing as you by just not saying anything about it and not making a move.
But, if you really want him to lighten up and act like your boyfriend, you have to make the first move. I mean yes, this is your first boyfriend and you feel scared and very new to this, but if you just reach out and hold his hand, he's not going to reject you if he really loves you. You just have to hold his hand or just say, "I love kissing you" and then kiss him to hint around that you want a little more from him.
About the immaturity thing, he's bound to be a little playful having younger siblings, and the fact that he's a boy. So make the best of it. He's playful, play fight with him, all the more excuse for you to get closer and have more fun with him, right?
About the birthday thing, just don't expect something huge. He will likely get you something for your birthday, but you just have to appreciate the fact that he's giving you something and that you have something great going with him. I mean he's your first boyfriend, what could be better at a time like this in your life?
-TheTeenGirl
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Sorry to say , but there is not a whole lot you can do about this. As a general rule, girls mature faster than boys so if you like him you may have to wait for him to catch up to your level, or maybe go find a boy who is ready to hold your hand and talk to you on the phone.
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