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Ok, so me and this kid, adam, had a "thing" a couple months ago. And then stuff happened, and we stopped talking. I started talking to him again last night, but right now, he has a girlfriend. When we were talking, he kind of acted like he didnt have a girlfriend. Like he kept telling me that i'm cute and how he missed talking to me, and then we talked about things we talked about or did before. And he sent me a couple recent pictures of him because i havent seen him in a couple months. I have no intentions of getting with him while he has a girlfriend, because i'm totally against cheating, but is flirting with him and that wrong while he has a girlfriend?
I brought it up to him that i felt weird talking to him like that while he has a girlfriend, and he was just like well as long as both of us know our limits, its fine. We're not doing anything, we're just talking. After we talked about him having a girlfriend and that, alls he said was "i dont know. blahhh." and i asked him what was so blah, but he wouldnt tell me. Any thougts on what he could have ment? I know it wasnt about his girlfriend, so could it have ment like he misses talking to me like that? I have no clue. Any thought would be great
thanks!
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If you think cheating is wrong, I'm surprised you need help with this: If cheating is wrong, then flirting with him is certainly not a great idea.
It might make him thinking cheating *is* okay (sure, your words say no, but everything else says yes, yes, yes.) If you aren't that kind of person, stop giving that impression. Pushing those 'limits' is a good way to land yourself with a cheating boyfriend in the future AND you are both pushing those limits! You are consciously trying to get him, and keep him, interested and he's doing the same too you with that whole 'Please ask me why my relationship is 'blah'' nonsense.
He is interested in you and you are interested in him. That's okay, people always have crushes, but right now you are playing a dangerous and irresponsible game with this crush.
Scale back on the lovey-dovey talk and let this guy deal with his girl first and foremost. Anything else is unfair to you, and agianst your principals, right?
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