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boyfriend issues
well my boy friend and i have been goin out like 5months, i like him a lot! and well sometimes idk he can kind of frustrate me and always ask if im ok and be sort of protective over me like my dad and i dont know what to say and i wouldnt wanna hurt him cause he likes me a lot and hes like the first b/f i've made-out with...what to do??
16/f
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This boyfriend of yours must really love you. I don't think that he means to be over-protective. But maybe he just doesn't want to lose you or doesn't want you to get hurt. I would suggest that you tell him how you feel and maybe to calm down a bit, but tell him in a nice way. Don't be all like it's something bad, talk about it like its just something you normally would talk about or something you want improved.
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Wow, it sounds like this guy really cares about you! And how sweet that he looks out for you like that... he's like a knight in shining armor! But yeah, I can see how that might get annoying sometimes, because I know someone just like that. In my case, it's my mom. She's a huge worrier... always checking if I'm ok, warning me about things that might be dangerous, afraid something will happen to me. It used to drive me crazy!! But I finally realized that that's just her basic personality, and nothing I can do will change that. So now I just sort of shrug it off. If you really like this guy, and everything else about your relationship is going well, then you might have to do the same thing... just accept that part of his personality and try not to let it bug you. When he asks if you're ok, or seems worried about you, just say, "Yeah, I'm fine! But thanks for being concerned about me!"... and then try to change the subject.
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