well im 17 n i have this friend(19), were really good friends and hes my bro's best friend, weve known each other since i was a freshman in high school,he graduated already but he goes back and visits me sometimes.the thing is one day he asked me if i wanted to make out with and i accepted, but after that i started seeing him as more than a friend, this during my sophomore year.he didnt ask me out though. hes very protective and sweet, and i know he cares about me. one day i felt really bad and i needed to talk to someone and he came from his house to my school and was late to work, just to talk to me. hes got a gf now but it seems like he doesnt really like her, he cheated on her twice.he trusts me alot n tells me almost everythin. now durin the summer i dont see him very much and i realized that i still like him a lot. I miss him, and think about him most of the time. but i dont know whether he likes me back or not. how can i know if he sees me as sister or something more??? help... and even if he does, would it be a good idea to date him,even though i know he cheated on his now gf?? should I forget about him? if yea, how?? soo complicated! help plz!
yourrtrustyhelpline answered Friday August 3 2007, 1:58 am: well, he may seem like a great guy, but if he cheated on his gf, what makes you think he wont cheat on you ? from what youve said, i'm not exactly sure if he likes you. he probably sees you more as a close friend that could be something more, but at this point, i kinda doubt he likes you, but he probably could start liking you later on. either way, i think he's bad news. even if you guys did end up going out, he might end up cheating on you like he did with this gf. i think you should keep talking to him, and stay his friend, but try to not think about him so much, if you only started liking him after you kissed him, it's probably just infatuation anyways. [ yourrtrustyhelpline's advice column | Ask yourrtrustyhelpline A Question ]
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