dear Melbt4t,
My two Best Friends used to do EVERYTHING togather. But now, since they had a huge fight and thier friendship is over, I feel like I always have to choose between the two. it is like if i hang out with one friend,then the other one will hate me!there's no way im going to choose one over the other! what should I do about this?
Additional info, added Thursday August 2 2007, 7:43 pm: this is a test. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? MelBT4T answered Thursday August 2 2007, 7:30 pm: Dear Divided Between Friends,
There is no reason for you to choose between your closest friends. The best thing to do in this situation is to use communication. The first step, is Talking to your friends, “Together”; even though they may not like it, you have to tell them how you feel, and why. The next step, is finding a solution. “Together,” figure out ways that you can hang out with both of your friends; how they can be more understanding. Who knows, maybe some day you ALL will be best friends again, but for now, the most important thing in ANY relationship is to communicate with each other.
Xoxo, Mel [ MelBT4T's advice column | Ask MelBT4T A Question ]
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