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Hi. Okay, I've been going out with this friend of mine who i like SO much for about 2 months now. I know that he likes me a lot too, but the thing is we're both shy. Now, his previous gf who was horrible for him said after their first and only kiss that he's an "okay" kisser. I want to shoot her. why? because now after we have had our first kiss, we talked and he said he wasnt ready. she sayin that lowered his confidence lol. I was able to tell, so i never really pressured him to kiss me after God knows how long i've waited. ive told him that i really couldnt give a crap about what she says b/c he really is a good kisser!! and also, i thought i should just kiss him, but im also too shy, and because i dont want him to think that im pressuring him. thats the last thing i want to do. but i dont want us to be in a relationship together where we only had one kiss. im not saying i want a daily makeout session, but just that he feels comfortable to kiss me when he wants to. so what i want to know is what the hell should we do? what should i do? i know i should just suck it up and make the move but i cant! what advice would you give me for that too? any help is good. thanks!
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Just tell him how he makes you feel when he kisses you, since this other girl lowered his confidence, you can help him by boosting his confidence by telling him how kissing you makes you feel. Or maybe start by just kissing him on the cheek, and when you feel comfortable, kiss him on the lips. If he's not completely comfortable with it yet, again don't push him, but keep assuring him that's a great guy and that your happy with him.
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