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ok i keep hearing about girls and their boyfriends and sex life and etc. and i kinda feel left out. i mean, im still pretty young but i've never dated a guy before. i dont wanna end up the next 40 yr old virgin! Some problems are: I'm new. I'm usually a good FRIEND for a guy. Possibly because I don't dress like the other girls since I don't see the point in spending my parents money on pointless things. And i;m so...different. I'm a deep person, and that I guess scares people. And because I don't know, I've never been told I'm that pretty. But shouldn't guys have matured by now and see beyond looks? It's kinda depressing because I'm always labeled as the "sweet girl" but obviously, somethings wrong with me?
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well.. this is what i can say to you.
It can be hard to break into the dating scene, because before you do it's typical for people to really not look at you as someone "hot" or "dateable" because they haven't really seen you out and about with another person. What you really need to do is exude self confidence. Don't be egotistical, but approach people. Show them that you are a great person. People become attracted to you with time, it's not always an instant thing. Start getting to know people and let them get to know you. Maybe once they start seeing what an awesome person you are, they'll step back and realize "wow, shes really pretty!"
Also, the truth is guys never really "mature" and see past looks. If anything it gets worse as they get older. Appearance is a big part of dating whether we like it or not because people want to be with someone they are attracted to. Now, what is "beautiful" is opinion, and someone may think someone is really attractive whereas someone might not. So don't worry too much about it, just be happy and confident that someone will come along.
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