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that "it hurts...?" question, revisited...
19/f, 20/m. Basics: we were having sex, and I hurt him. Like, bruised.
He said it was because I squeezed too tight/too much, and there was like, no give on any side. I'd believe that, but how do I loosen up?
Could it also have hurt him because he wasn't hard enough?
We kind of rushed into the sex 'cause we didn't have a whole lot of time, but we've done that before and it hasn't caused problems. Only difference is, before this time he was always really turned on and really hard.
Is it even possible to bruise a guy squeezing too much if he's not hard enough?
If so, obviously the answer is more foreplay/teasing, more time to anticipate, etc.
What are some ways for me to loosen up?
I wanna make it up to him next week, and I DON'T want this to happen again. EVER.
Help me?
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Hmm.
Women are not a straight line inside, if he is too short or the angle is wrong, its possible to... well basically to bend an erect penis. This can be anywhere from mildly to incredibly painful depending on how hard he is and how far it bends.
This happens most of the time when the man is prone on his back and the girl is on top, but it can also happen if, say, he pulls out too far and pushes back in but doesnt actually make it inside the vagina. Also can be very painful.
As far as squeezing, I dont believe its possible for vaginal muscles to squeeze so hard as to bruise a penis, and no if he was soft it would actually make it better rather than worse (a soft penis is very manipulatable)
Either you bent him (which just requires you to go more slowly) or theres something wrong with him that has nothing to do with you.
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