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self conces // should i do it?
so im 14 and have done stuff with the boyfriends that i have had. i dont mean sex. i mean like touching and kissing and stuff liek that. but there is this one guy that i like a lot ad he likes me back today i went to his house and we were making out on his bed and he wanted to have sex with me. i said no becuse i dont want to lose it! but there was something inside of me that was like just do it! but i didnt. and he said its okay if i dont want to we can just do other stuff anf hang out. but the prob is that i want to do stuff with him but im thick and im real self conces about my body i mean he says theres nothing wrong with me at all but im soo scared that im fat or my legs are too big or my boobs are saggie beacuse thay are bigg. but he says he likes me just that was i am.
i was wondering do you have any way i can get over feeling so self conces and do you think i should have sex with him or not? please answer bak.
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If you're asking me if you should have sex with him, you obviously aren't too sure about it. When you're 100% ready, you know, and you don't have to ask other people if you should or shouldn't. I suggest waiting until the right guy, 'cause this guy doesn't seem like it. You're still young and you have all the time in the world. Wait for the guy you're 100% comfortable with. When it is the right guy, you won't be worrying about how fat your legs are or how weird your boobs may look, he'll love you for you. He won't want to have sex because "it's the cool thing to do now-a-days," he'll want to have sex because he LOVES you. I suggest just waiting, hun. Like I said, you have all the time in the world for guys and sex. They can wait.
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