I've just started seeing this guy and on the first day of officially being together we had sex, im 17 and hes 18 and im scared that our relationship will be nothing but sex now and that theres nothing to look forward too. It wasnt awkward after but now i feel hes having second thoughts about us, but i may just be paranoid? i really dont know what to do or say, if anything. Hopefully i am seeing him tomorro and spending tomorro night with him so i might suggest for us to take things slow? or shall i not say anything at all and not make things easily happen?
Im sure he wants to be with me as hes not the type to sleep around but i dont know why things happened to quickly
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? DepthofHeart answered Monday July 30 2007, 8:24 pm: You should suggest that you take things slow. Go a week without sleeping together. If your relationship is boring without sex, then it was just physical. If it's not then you'll be fine. You should have talked first and waited until you guys had been together a while longer or were more serious and not just jumped straight to sex, but talk to him and see how he feels about all of this. Take it from there.
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