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Boyfriend... internet cheating?
I've been dating this guy for 10 months, about 3 months ago I made a fake myspace & AIM sn and pretended to be this hot girl that just moved into the town. I started talkin all sexy to him expectin him to refuse and say he has a girlfriend. To my surprise he gave "her" his phone number, and tried to get "her" to come over to his house, and send him naked pictures etc. It pissed me off so much and I confronted him about it. I told him it was over. Well to say the least that didn't happen. We got back together that same day. He was all cryin and beggin me to stay with him he told me that he wouldn't do anything with her and that he loves me and blah blah blah my stupid ass just forgave him. I regret getting back together with him i mean our relationship looks fine and he thinks it all fine now but it still bothers me to this day. I think that if some hotter girl than me tried to do something with him he'd do it. He tells me how he would never cheat on me and how he'd break up with me first. I know he hasn't cheated on me but its the thought that crosses my mind. If i bring it up he's like you need to let that go i'd never cheat on you. But its like how am i supposed to believe that when ya did what ya did. Idk what should I do? I mean its been at least 3 months since it happened but it still bothers the hell outta me. Would you consider that cheating?
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Well, at least you regret getting back together with him.
You're pretty much right on target with your feelings. A break up is in order before he finds someone that actually is willing to get together with him while you two are still together.
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i say he's playing you, if you can't trust a guy no matter how much you "think" you like him, and if he is a realkly great guy i doubt hes going to break uip with you to get another girl, he made a mistake, but maybe he is not the guy you thought he was, his true colors are coming out, and maybe its good, and maybe its bad! and actaully i owuld consider that cheating, i mena sure you might occasionally flirt with guys, but not like that, thats not good, it might be a little thign to him, but if it is effecting your relation ship forget about it, talk to him about it again, decide if it shold be over for yourself!
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Honestly since he had the intention of getting that "girl" over to his house and wanting to basically do stuff with her i would consider it cheating. Your going to have to find a way to forgive him, maybe you guys rushed back into your relationship to fast because he now knows that you would take him back, talk to him about it and tell him straight out that if you ever find him intending to cheat on you again that its over and will stay over - you deserve so much more & it will take alot for you to trust him again. if you really want your relationship to work then id suggest forgiving him and trying to find trust in him again, it will take a while but it will happen try and come to a compromise with him so that your not always scared he's going to cheat on you
hope i helped, goodluck girl
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