my bf and i are 17 and we when we have sex it doesnt last that long he loses his erection quickly last time i gave him a handjob and he couldnt get another erection he got really embarrassed and now hes embarrassed to try again because hes worried it will happen again what can we do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? karisue answered Wednesday July 25 2007, 5:13 pm: truthfully, i'm not very sure what to tell you.
is it that he loses his erection completely? or he gets off too fast?
during sex, a lot of male's penises go soft while they are inside of the vagina but it's still enough to keep going. that's usually just a sign of an orgasm.
if a guy gets off once, it's a lot harder to get him 'turned on' again, than it is for a girl.
try a lot of foreplaying to make sure he's really, really horny, and then go for the sex.
tell him to relax & to not be so nervous because you guys should be comfortable around eachother.
try to keep his interest peaked, he may just be the type to not stay horny very long.
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