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UPDATE PLEASE HELP
OK so this is an update to my last question (can u take back the love word) well this same guy lives in CA and I live in VA so he came to see me well on his trip he gave me a ring and finely told me he loved me and this time it was real. Well after he left I was in my room and I found that he had let him myspace on. Well at first I didn’t want to look but I did. (And yes I know it was wrong of me). Well I meant to only look at the pictures to the people in his inbox but this girl Ashley kept coming up and he had told me about her but he said that he was over her a long time ago. Well the way it was looking he wasn’t. So I read one to see what it said the first was not bad but I kept reading the things they talked about got deeper and deeper. I mean he told me he had his v card but he is telling this girl that he want to do her. Why would he have traveled all this way to see me and gave me a ring and told me he loves me! And be talking to this girl. (I’m almost 18 so this in not puppy love we could get married) but I really don’t know what to do I told him I look at his myspace and that I read the stuff and he told me once he is home he is ending it and he really really loves me and the only reason he did it was because a guy that I really liked in high school came back in to my life as a friend and he thought he was going to lose me after I told him that I wasn’t but that guy know that I was in love so he didn’t try to get with me and I’ve been 100 present with my CA boy but how do I know that he is to brake it off how can I trust him after he told me that he like her a long time ago but he is still talking to her and hiding it from me I told him that he can tell me anything and I wouldn’t get mad and that we would work stuff out together. I know we live in two different places and I’m not going to know everything but I really want to trust him and work all this out! Please help
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Hi honey,
YOu have to be able to trust him or how can you have a long term relationship. I don't blame you for not trusting him now. It is not right when guys keep more than one girl hanging on, "just in case". What happens if you have a bad day? Is he going to start up with her again. I wouldn't trust him if I were you, and tell him that. And tell him that if he means what he says about how he feels about you, then you will let him prove it to you. Now you decide what that needs to be, and then see if he does it. And then you'll have to trust him until he shows you differently. Take you time. REally you shouldn't trust him right away, that is what dating and engagements are for, getting to know each other. Find out if either of you can be trusted. So good luck to you
Michele
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