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how did i get cought up in this?!
my best friend's ex boyfriend's friend recognized me from my friend's myspace and introduced himself. we both go to summer school so thats where we met. he said hi and i said hi and that was about it. as the week went on whenever he'd say hi to me he'd give me a hug. he also did it when i left. we've been talking a bit over myspace but nothing really interesting. he has a girlfriend so i never thought much of his. he's alright looking, nice body, tall. for the past two days when he says hi he's been telling me how nice i look when im just in a t-shirt and jeans. today we exchanged screen names for aim and we talked for like five minutes. at first i thought it was going to be a boring conversation but after the "hey what's up" he jumped right in to asking if i had a boyfriend. and i said i've been single for a year and he said it was a long time and i said yeah but im not really looking for anything. and then he asked who i like and i said nobody, because that's the truth. then he said that he knows someone who secretly likes me and he said its someone i met recently. he's the only person i met recently. he's a nice kid but i wouldn't want him to leave his girlfriend for me. even though they've only been going out for two weeks. but im not a homewrecker type of girl. i don't know what to do about him. i told him if he left his girlfriend i wouldn't go out with him and he understands that but monday at school is going to be akward. how do you deal with a guy who has a "major crush on you" who has a girlfriend?
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Don't do anything. act as if nothing happened. and if he breaks up with his girlfriend for you, you should just say "ya no, lets wait a little bit, and then maybe we can give it a try. just try. but at school, act as if nothing happened. continue being his friend. this has happened to me alot, and ya its awkward, but don't think about it and you'll be fine.
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A taken man is no man's land. In other words, you are best not getting involved if he has a girlfriend already and if you are not completely interested. If you choose to involve yourself with him, you could create problems not only with him but also with his girlfriend. Unless you actually have a thing for him, just let him go.
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