14/f Oka here is the problem i have a crush on one of my friends brother(and yea she knows i like him).Anyways her brother is one of thoses guys that flirt alot and i guess thats what made me like him in the first place.So anyways he found out that i liked him and well usually i would always go to my friend house and we would hang.So one day she ask me to come over and of course her brother was there and i didnt know how to act around him or when he sees me.So i was told to just play it cool and see if he makes the first move so i did,the first time i went over their he said hi to me which he never did before but he always say hi to people.And well when me and my friend was heading out the door i could of sworn i heard him say somthing to me like do you wanna go out with me but he said it all low and everything and i didnt know if he was just kidden around to just annoy me or if he was for real.So my point is the fact that i been playing cool and he dose still talk to me and still sometimes flirt (which he does that to everyone)but i dont know what to do next.Should i just go and ask him out or still play it cool and let him make the first move.
You_Got_Advice answered Thursday July 19 2007, 1:50 am: I think you should make the first move, because he might be embarrased that he could be losing his "cool ladies man" image to you. He wants to stay cool just like you, and he doesnt want to seem to needy. or rejection. you never know until you take the risk. [ You_Got_Advice's advice column | Ask You_Got_Advice A Question ]
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