"i REally need A few Questions answered before i have a melt
Question Posted Wednesday July 18 2007, 8:04 pm
14/f
Well i really liked this guy since the beginning of school two d ays after he came.(which was in like september the first week)
then in about janusry-february we became relally close friends. and i still liked him. then about a few weeks ago at the end of june on the 26 or something he told me he liked me and stuff and i got my hopes up. then a day or so later he started going out with this other girl.and evrytime i would ask him if liked her or watever he would tell me no.(and i got my hopes up so i stayed his friend) Then one of the fisrt things i told him when we became friends was NOT 2 LIE 2 ME!!!!
Well today i asked him again and he gave me alll these excuses but i finally got the truth out of him and he only like me a little bit and i dont think even so AND HE REALLY LOVES HER even after he told me she was just an experiment and stuff. After he tells me he asks if we can still be friends like nothing and am i mad im mean wth??
QUestions:
1) do i have a reson to over react?
2)How do i move on if i really really still like him and have to see him in highschool! Plus he live 2 Blocks away and we share a friend!?
3)Am i really ugly or was his choice better or idk tell me wat u think please!!!!!!!!?
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Additional info, added Thursday July 19 2007, 12:50 pm: 1)He dfidnt ask her out and she didnt make a move.
2)He said at first he didnt want to go out wit anyone!
3)then her couzin teases that there going out and she belived they were!
4)then all of a suden he doesnt like and wont leave!
5)But for some reason i think hes just afraid to hurt hwer feelings(cause she a little push over and a little baby cry, and she likes to make him feel bad for her)
What do you think?
anything else just ask!. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Smudges answered Wednesday July 18 2007, 10:03 pm: OKay, sounds like he did like you, and well you didnt' make a move so he liked this other girl and she made a move. but he still wanted you as a really close friend or a plan b. the reason for him to make excuses is cause at first he meant it but then he didnt want to take it back maybe so he kept covering it with a bunch of bullshit. (scuse my language) so you are kind of over reacting, he meant well righT? and he obviously wants you as a friend, but a word of advice dont consider going with him if he breaks up with her, it will only end up in disaster. oh
and other thing
NEver Judge your LookS! because Once you judge yourself, you doubt yourself. Hope this helps
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