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Blunder Part 4
HI Clara,
I have asked him before he came down if he thinks we can have something.. he said AFTER we meet yes its possible. and Im sure he wants to have a relationship.. cause I beleive he is looking for that as well. He said he liked me and that I looked much more prettier in person than I did in my pics so I took that as a good sign and I had mentioned to him during the date that I would like to see him again before he leaves.. he said yah.. so I dunno why all this.. He didnt beleive me at first that I didnt have sex before and when I said if you dont wanna beleive me thats your choice.. and he said afterwards that he was sorry.. I said dont be its okay..I asked him on Monday if he wants to do something on tuesday.. he said he doesnt think he has anything but he will let me know. which he didnt and I asked him via txt and msn do you still wanna do something he didnt respond..but he still talked to me normally the last nite when I talked to him he was tired and said that he is exhausted cause he drove to the border on monday to get something renewed.. and it took 7 hrs and that he came back at 4 in the morning.. I said he shud go to sleep then later a few mins later I asked him to stay.. I said stay pls for a few mins.. he said thats my biggest pet peeve im sorry and went offline.. I guess maybe I annoyed him.. I dunno Clara.. I so want for him to like but the right way. not cause he thinks im easy.. I guess he asked me that qusetion cause I am 26 and I still havent given it up to anyone before.. I was about to cry when he didnt beleive me.. I was like oh my gawd.. I cant beleive hes saying that..
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Hey, don't be sad. Sometimes we can't blame people for the way they see things. If he doesn't seem to believe you, then don't strangle yourself over trying to make him do so. You know it yourself and time will show. Be patient. I know it's hard and frustrating when people don't get you, girl, it happens to everyone and anyone.
You didnt annoy him. You happen to catch him at a bad time. He was just feeling really tired and when people are tired, they tend to type whatever is in their head at the moment. Don't keep repeating and insisting that he was your first. IT'll make him doubt you rather than believe you. You did good in telling him that it's his choice to believe you or not. You've done your part in making your stand and it's up to him to believe you. Right now, it's not that he doesn't trust you, it's just that he wants to know the truth.
Meanwhile, go and do other things so that you don't let this situation drive you insane. Give yourself a breather. Set a date with him and if he can't seem to find a time out for you, then there's nothing you can do. Even if you try persistantly to get him out, and let's say he agrees to go out with you, the date will not turn out to be a good and happy one because you are going out with an unreluctant partner.
SO, ask him for a free day and tell him it would be nice if you could have some confirmation. If he doesn't wanna set a date yet, then leave it. Sometimes, people will hanker after you only when you start leaving them alone.
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