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my personality
okk. so like on facebook there is the application honesty box & i have it. well people [girls] have been writing like mean stuff in it. like constructive criticism. but like idk my feelingss are kindaa hurtt. like people called me moody, annoying & fake. i want to know what people think of me, but how do i handle the comments more maturely without getting all pissed off? should i delete my honesty boxx? but then i'll never know what people think of me.
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Well I do not have a page on face book, but I think I understand your dilema. You put up the honesty box, because you want to know what people really think of you. Actually that is quite brave. Here are two points....
One, think carefully about the comments that were left in your honesty box. Do they have any merit. Can they in any way be true....a little, or a lot. Then think about the fact that people get the "impression" that anything they do over the internet is anonymous. They will say and do things that they would not normally do. So maybe some of your friends are using the opportunity to be mean, just because they can. So maybe the whole matter is a little of both. Maybe some of the statements could be true, and maybe some of your friends are just mean.
Lets take each issue by itself. I mean what young girl isn't moody. It has everything to do with hormones, not being in charge of your life yet, and the fact that life for young teens is mostly boring. That would make anyone moody.
Annoying....all people are annoying. And you know who is most annoying....people who don't agree with us. What nerve! (Hey, I'm just kidding, we can't expect people to agree with us all of the time, and those who get annoyed with that, need to wake up.) Fake.....well, in my opinion, it takes one to know one. Here is a clue, most people judge others by their own standards. Fake people think everyone is fake because they have no idea what it is like to be real. They don't know what if feels like. My advice, Kill them with kindness. Don't ever let anyone know that their words hurt you, especially when they are trying to be mean on purpose. And the nicer you are, the more it drives them crazy, because they didn's succeed in ruining your day.
GOod luck to you
Michele
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