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I'm 18/f and he's 18/m. So here's the situation.... my boyfriend and I have been dating well over a year. The first year we dated, the intimacy parts (sex, etc.) of our relationship were great and numerous. Now, however, things just haven't been the same. My boyfriend refuses to have any physical activity with me. Every other part of our relationship is fine except for the sex because he never wants to do it anymore. The only logical reason I can think of for this is he is insecure. What can I do to make him feel more comfortable and want me physically again?
Guys answer only, please, if you've ever been in this situation or have any good ideas. Thanks!
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Communication is about the only solution here.
Sit him down. Tell him that you need to discuss this because its a major concern for you and you feel disconnected from him.
Talk to him. Ask him why intimacy is no longer attractive.
Because to be honest, its very unusual on the guys part to be like that. I am a guy in a long term relatoinship, and I have a day here and there where my sex drive is simply non existent, but its usually only a day, or connected to something that has me down for other reasons and Im just not in the mood.
Talk to him about it. Voice your concerns. If he tries to leave, dont let him. If you dont force communication about it its not going to change.
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hmmmmm, put a viagra in his drink! jk jk
umm, you could go around wearing just your lingerie i'm sure that should do the trick!
or you can question him why he has led you to feel that way?
sorry but most guys don't have that problem no offense, especially if everything else is going good
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