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there is this guy that i kinda rellay like...we went out a long time ago and then we stopped tlaking bc he kinda sorta cheated on me. like he asked me to go out with him but i knew that i wouldn't be able to hang out with him bc my mom is wayyy to overprtective and doesn't let me date and i pretty much skean out when i wanna do sumtin. so i said no, and told him that i had to get to noe him first. then when i came to school one day he told me that he found someone else...so i kinda gave up on that. but i still had feeling for him. then about a year later ((now)) i find out that he wants to hang out with me. and ofcourse i cant bc of my overprotective mom and i still like him. i have his number and he has mine and hes called me a few times. then we stopped talking again. i found out that i am moving and idk if i should still like him or just move on, bc i still like him, and he was kinda my first boyfriend. all my friends are like LET IT GOOO DAMMIT! so they didn't really help me. so pleaseeeee help.
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Your first boyfriend is a huge deal, and he will always be a part of your heart, but i think it's about time you moved on. With my first boyfriend, even a year or so later i still considered my feelings for him but i knew those feelings were not the same as before, i just loved the time we spent together but now i have moved on to someone else.
This guy has cheated on you before and the fact that sometimes he talks to you and sometimes he doesn't hasn't really led you 2 to regain that trust again. The problem you currently have is that you could hardly see him and you moving will make that worse. It's time to let go of him and to move on to greater and better things.
You can remain friends with him but make sure you BOTH know its JUST friends.
It will take some time and sometimes you might think you still love him but the fact is you will always love him because he was your first boyfriend but now you need to let go of him. After time, you will begin to feel better. It might take a while but i promise you will.
My final advice to you for your future is to do what you want to do and what your intuition is telling you, wether that be in relationships or not. Only you can really tell if enough is enough and that it is time to move on, but if u try to ignore that fact that it is over, you will continue to be hurt and happiness will fade away.
Just go out there and meet new guys and have fun!
Enjoy yourself! Don't let your mind dwell on what once was, take life as it is.
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