ok all of my friends that are girls (they're not lesbians) think im really pretty and i believe them because they never lie to me and they're amazing friends and always tell me the truth even if it hurts me because i'd rather know the truth. also when i go places guys are always staring at me and giving me the "your hott" look and sometimes i over hear them talking to their friends saying "wow shes really hott". whenever i like someone though, they never like me back. and i've never had a boyfriend. when i tell people this they don't believe me. they say im so much fun to be around. whats wrong with me?
hollister_lover09 answered Monday July 16 2007, 12:10 pm: It might be that your too pretty.. And some guys think "shes way to pretty for me." Or he might be scared b/c when hes dating you, and you are so pretty, that you will leave him for another hott guy. Get it? I'm not saying get ugly, but try making the first move on the guy, and ask him to hang out with you. Maybe then that will get something started. Hope I helped<3 [ hollister_lover09's advice column | Ask hollister_lover09 A Question ]
orphans answered Monday July 16 2007, 10:38 am: hey
haha, that's weird because the same thing happens to me. everyone thinks i'm pretty but i haven't even had my first kiss yet or a real boyfriend.
i think guys think you are so cutesy & "fun to be around" refrains them from asking you out because you're not one of the serious types of girls. guys prefer funloving girls anyway. don't change yourself.
a guy who likes you will come along one day & ask you out. it's just a matter of time. i'm 14.5 years old... you have time. in college, everything starts to really kick in. maybe even in high school for you.
you know, it's also a coincidence that when you like a guy, he doesn't like you back because that happens to me & they start liking me afterwards. guys have the worst timing sometimes!
sweetheart, nothing's wrong with you. you're beautiful & guys see that, but maybe they're just nervous to do something about it because they think "oh she's so fine she probably wouldn't say yes to me even if i did ask her out."
"good things come to those who wait"
just wait it out & you'll see that guys will be asking you out instead of just smiling at you and giving you the "you're hot" look :] seriously. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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