There's this guy I've worked with for the past month of so. Neither of us are looking for a commitment or a relationship, but I'm into him. I'm wanting a more casual thing. I know he's at least interested in me and we've hung out a couple times and flirt at work and stuff. Well, last night we hung out for the last time in almost 3 weeks because he's leaving for vacation and when he gets back I'll be gone to California for two weeks. I'm coming back at the very beginning of August. We're going to talk on the phone and stuff, so all communication isn't broken, but when I come back I want to make an impression.
While I'm there I'm going to go to the pool every day and we're going to the beach, so I'll have a good tan when I get back. Plus, I'm going to get my hair cut and re-highlighted. I'm getting side bangs as opposed to just layers like I have now. So I'll be looking better than I do now...but what other simple improvements can I make to make an impression on him and everyone else. I want to come back with a bang. Plus, about a month after I get back, I'm going back to school, so I want to make a good impression there too.
Oh, and any tips on ways to flirt over the phone or cute things to say to him while I'm gone would be greatly appreciated. :] Pretty much your thoughts on all of this would be great.
Additional info, added Saturday July 14 2007, 9:47 am: EDIT: I don't want people to think I want to change myself just to impress this one guy that I'm not even dating and won't be dating anytime soon...I just want subtle things to heighten my confidence with EVERYONE around me, not just that guy.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? kiran answered Saturday July 14 2007, 1:55 pm: Well your getting your haircut and a tan? Well your personality could change too. Well the way you act around other people. Like I'm not saying your not nice and stuff but I'm saying that there are flaws in your life that are good things. So you could work on those. And if you don't smile alot when you talk to people you could be extra friendly. You be known as the girl who is friendly to everyone and always in a good mood even when things go wrong. It could help you and others. Like other people may be having a rough day so them seeing you can cheer them up. And other people will look up to you. It will change you and have other people see the change and even the guy. Well I hope everything goes well for you and I hope you have a good time on your vacation. [ kiran's advice column | Ask kiran A Question ]
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