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Friend or Whore?
ok. i am 14, female, and so is my best friend Kelly. We are starting high school next year, and the last week of school, her exboyfriend(went out for one day. loves his best friend now) asked me out. i didnt like him much, and kelly said she didnt care. now my bf is very depressed... and is depressing me. i was going to break up with him, but i am also afraid he will do something drastic... and what scares me more is that he really wont care... or try to stop me. i do deeply care about him, but i just recently found out that the first time we hung out together at the mall, kelly kissed him on the cheek. he always calls her before me... though he tells me he loves me. kelly says i should just ignore it... that he really loves me. i try to talk to him about things that bother him but he doesnt listen. kelly explains to my friend that kissing him was "friendly". tho we were going out at the time. did i cross the line dating him after she did, or did she cross the line kissing him? do i break up with him over it, or forget about it and try to work it out?
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ok..he still has feeling for her and so does she...she didnt want you to go out with him in the 1st place so it seems like she is tryin 2 get him 2 lewave or cheat on you so just break up with him and i dont no how good of a friend ship you and her have but it doesnt seem so good if she did that but i would keep some distace and pay more attention with your next bf's...because she seems like a flirt
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If your boy there is calling her first then something is up.
I recommend breaking off the relationship. It will go nowhere.
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She kissed him on the cheek. Thats not exactly making out. Although It might make my skin crawl a little too. However, if he is depressed he may still have feelings for her. His depression may actually be him distancing himself from you. They dated for a day, thats not dating. Thats rediculous to even say it counts as dating. I dont think he knows what love is, and if he does its not with you. Sorry hun, I think you need to break it off.
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You should talk to them. But I think your friend did cross the line by kissing him. I mean, she knows you're with him. But I also think you made a mistake by going out with her ex. There are probablities that they might still have feeling for each other. But just talk to them. Hope everything works out.
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