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I want to be his girlfriend
I met this guy Trey on myspace. He sent me a message saying that I am very pretty...and we started talking. He knows the guys and girls i know so I know that he is real. Well he is really sweet, and he said whenever we hang out he will ask me out. Two nights ago he came over... we made out and just messed around [nothing serious] and we had so much fun. We cuddled and layied ontop of each other and I felt like the luckiest girl in the world. He did'nt ask me out. On the phone he mentioned something that he doesnt want a relationship...but i want him to know somehow that i really want one. I invited him over tonight, and he's trying to find a ride over. How can I let him know what I really do want a relationship?
Oh yeah, I'm 15/f and he's 16/m
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Just flat out tell him. If you aren't honest, how is this relationship ever going to happen? That's right, it won't. Tell him that you were under the impression that he wanted a relationshiop with you [even if it may not have been the smartest idea to meet up with someone you didn't exactly know- even if friends knew him, but I'm not going to lecture you, as it seems as if it turned out alright]. He gave you that impression of wanting the relationship, and you realized that you really would like to take him up on his offer. If he doesn't seem interested.. I think he's just in for the making out and potential sex [I don't know if that will be part of your friendship, but if it does, and he doesn't want you as a girlfriend- he's using you for sex- just know that].
See how it goes, and then judge what you'll do next. If he seems interested in a relationship with you, then go for it! He may not have asked because he may have forgotten or thought it was too early to ask.
Good Luck!
--Jack
(15/m)
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