So I am going out with an amazing guy, lets call him "Bob". He is probably the best boyfriend I have dated. But the thing is.. I still like two of my ex boyfriends :/ Their names can be "Tom" and "Joe". I don't know if Tom likes me :/ He told me he doesnt like anyone right now. And he thinks no one likes him. Joe is probably the worst choice I could pick, but I still like him. Then theres "Carl" [thats not his real, name of course] and everyone says he likes me, and I like him too. But he is my current boyfriends bestfriend. As for "Bob".. I actually dont like him more than a friend. I don't know what to do, and i dont know who to pick. Help?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? eleighb093 answered Thursday July 12 2007, 11:29 am: wow. okay, well first if you dont like Bob that much as a bf anymore, then maybe you shouldnt be going out with him. As for Tom, maybe one of your friends could find out who he likes, and if its not you, then maybe you should try and get over Tom. and if Joe is the worst pick, then you shouldnt really choose him and probally get over him. and Carl. well, if / when you break up with Bob, give him sometime, like maybe a week or so for him to get over you. and maybe during that week, you could get to know Carl better.
And maybe after a week or find out if Bob is okay and if he is over you. and if he is over you, then maybe you and Carl could start dating.
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