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alright sorry if this gets long. i was dating this guys for about 6 months. im 17 and hes 18.
ive had more sexual partners then him. and i lied to him in the begingin of the relationship, saying there was about half as any as there actually were which is 2. but my cauntious caught up to me and i told him the truth. he broke up with me. but we\'ve talked alot since then. but im getting mixed signals. yesturday i talked to him and he told me with out me even asking him if we could hang out when we got off work. i said yes. and he said he would try and get a ride. i said my mom can pick you up if you want. but he said no i dont want your mom doing that even though its only 2 mins out of the way. but anyway he never called. does it seem to you tht he really wants to make things work? i dont understand wats going on? shouldnt he be able to forgive me if he says he loves me as much as he does?
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You probably hurt him by lying to him, however I don't agree with his decision of breaking up with you just based on that. The ball's in your court though. You're the one that lied to him. Go out of your way to arrange to meet up with him and talk to him. Tell him that your sorry you lied to him, explain why you lied and tell him that you still want to be with him. Tell him the only reason you told him was because you didn't want to lie anymore. Good luck, I hope everything works out.
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Relationships are based on trust. By lying to him, you hurt his feelings. I'm sure he's just having mixed feelings about you now.
He probably wants to be with you, but doesn't want to be hurt again. Think of it from his perspective. If he had lied to you, wouldn't you feel the same as him? Give him some time to get through this. Trust takes a lot of time to build for many people.
Good luck and I hope everything works out for you.
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