theres this kid who i guess im kind of developing a crush on. we've hooked up a few times. he's cute and whatever but he can get really mean and make me feel pretty bad when he wants to. but he has his good moments too. im not stupid..i know he only likes me because im willing to do stuff with him. he thinks of me as nothing more than a random hook up. but its getting pretty old. anytime he calls me its because he wants to do stuff. and if i say no he's an ass about it. and when i say yes, he gets what he wants and i dont hear from him for days...sometimes weeks. i dont know what to do. should i say someting? or stop talking to him? any advice would be great. thanks <33.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xojessii answered Wednesday July 11 2007, 8:14 pm: um, WOW! can you say coincidence?
i know EXACTLY how you feel. i had a relationship JUST like that. and my advice to you is to not let him push you around like that. i would try to take a step back and just be friends. not friends with benefits. hes a player, and you dont want to fall for him and then him chase after another girl. thats what happened to me and it truly hurts. so just tell him you don't want to do anything like that any more and if he doesnt talk to you or hang out with you for that then hes a jerk and you should have no problem getting over him because there are WAY better guys out there, trust me.
hope i helped :]
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