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ok so lately i have been feeling really weird during foreplay and stuff. with my ex boyfriend we did everything, the sex was great. but like before sex i would get really turned on and when i do i just dont know what to do with myself. like my favorite thing to do with my boyfriend was to straddle him, hold his hands down, start kissing him on the lips...then work my way down.
but the other day i did that to my new guy and he was like...wow your crazy, almost like it was a bad thing. so now i dont know what to do.
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Well you are only 15, and you seem to have a lot of sexual experience, and you seem to really enjoy sex and want to be an active partner. Problem is that at your age, you are going to meet a lot of guys who are 'inexperienced'. And well, they are the ones who don't know what to think. Don't get me wrong, I think they like it, BUT, they also hear their mother's words telling them that "experienced girls" are BAD girls. As much as we women would like to think that we have as much right to our sexual freedom as a man does.....we still don't. Women are still judged by men as being good girls or bad girls. Ok, and the "good girls" are the ones that some day they want to marry and be the mother of their children. the bad girls are the ones they want to have fun with.
Honey, it is your choice, but it is also your reputation. If this boy talks to his friends about how "experienced" you are, they are going to gossip about you. They are going to JUDGE you for it, and it won't be positive. You'll have more dates than you know what to do with. And probably you will soon figure out that the boys just want to go out with you because you are great in bed. But of course, you want to be known for all the wonderful things that you are, not just good in bed.
My advice....don't give up on your sexual pleasure, don't go backwards...BUT be choosey. Wait until the right guy comes along who will enjoy your inhibitions and keep it all to himself. And not "kiss and tell". You ARE entitled to a healthy sex life, and a healthy attitude towards sex, but you can't control other people. They may judge you over it, and it will be harsh. So save it for the one(s )who can appreciate it. And here's a clue.....Mostly likely, you won't meet guys who appreciate you for ALL that you are until you are much older, say in your 20's. I"m not saying that your current boyfriend is NOT this guy. You know the answer to that, better than I do.
GOod luck to you honey.
BECAUSE THE INFORMATION LIST FOR THE PERSON WHO ASKED THIS QUESTION SAYS YOU ARE 15. SO YOU'RE GIVING ME A BAD RATING BECAUSE YOU LIED?
Michele
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