I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now, and its getting really hard for me in the sex department. I don't feel sexy anymore, and I don't get excited like I used to. Its really upsetting me. Help?
lilmegsoko answered Thursday July 5 2007, 1:33 pm: You are getting comfortable in your relationship. Sometimes that happens , the excitement seems to go away.
Go out and buy a new sexy outfit, get your hair done. I know it sounds gross , but sometimes watching a little porn when he isnt around can help. Get YOURSELF in the mood. Sometimes a change is all you need. Take him by surprise and seduce him one night, nothing is a bigger turn on than watching the guy you love become putty in your hands ;) I also found that sometimes taking things a step further than your usual can heat things up too. Cross some boundries.....spice it up.....have him tell you what he wants....or make him do what you want....it will make you feel better and its a lot of fun. [ lilmegsoko's advice column | Ask lilmegsoko A Question ]
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