|
i need to know what to do about this guy
Okay well a while back i posted 2 questions about whether or not this boy we'll call him bob liked my and i liked him for about 6 months until i started talking to his best friend (kyle). i knew i still liked "bob" but i had to get over him because he had a gf..i had gym with bob and when it ended he stopped talking to me and it hurt really bad...long story short i started liking kyle too and i ended up going out with him. As soon as me and kyle broke up bob decided he wanted to talk to me again. He wanted me to not like kyle anymore and to like him...and i still did. HE said he liked me the whole time he had a gf and he still did and the reason he stopped talking to me was because he was mad that i didnt like him anymore...well we ended up going out for like a week then he broke up with me because he never had a gf in the summer and he was scared to have one.he kept apologizing but then he started hanging out with this girl....im not the jealous type but it just made me upset because i wanted him so long and then i had him just to lose him. now he doesnt call me andi called him once but he got off the phone right away. ive seen him a couple times and i try to pretend i dont see him because hes always with that girl...but he always has to get my attention by saying hi or yelling my name..and then he yells at me for not ever calling him or anything.... I dont know what to do because i think i could love him...but he doesnt really talk to me...and i dont think he likes me anymore..I really dont know how to get over him im just confused...please help
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
This guy really is not worth it.
When you like someone or even love someone sometimes you tend to avoid all the bad things they do because you love them so much and you don't really want to admit that you deserve better. From the sounds of it, this guy just wants to have a girlfriend. I know thats horrible to say but hes moving on from girl to girl. This guy saw you as single and vulnerable and because you once liked him he gave it a shot to ask you out.
As hard as it is you NEED to move on. This guy is just breaking your heart and it's just the kind of guy he is. It'll take time for you to get over him and you will eventually even though right now it seems impossible. I went through something like this when i dated a guy, he dumped me after a short period then i found out he only dated me because he wanted a girlfriend and i thought i was never going to get over him but i did.
You deserve a guy who treats you good and is soo much better than "bob".
My solution to a broken heart is cry your heart out first to let all those feelings out and then you can start the healing process. Have a girls night out or in with a big sleepover and lots of dvds and junk food and just them making you feel better about yourself. Once you start to feel better its easier to start to think more positively and sooner or later your going to find a guy whos soo great and fantastic and you'll have forgotten about "bob".
You really do deserve soo much better than him and you need to know that.
Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
]
More Questions: |