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guys plz answer too!
i would really like to know how i could get a love life of some sort, like how to interest a guy or how to know if he's interested in the first place.
ive only 'sort of' dated two guys in my life but it wasn't anything serious, just hanging out. it was more like good friends than a relationship.
i dont think i give off an 'interested' vibe. one guy told a friend of mine that he thought i wasn't interested because of the way i acted, but i have no idea how i acted. i would also like some advice on how to give off the single and interested vibe instead.
well, im not exactly gorgeous or anything. im pretty i guess, but not like super model gorgeous and i dont have a perfect body so i would like to know what exactly guys look for instead of just looks and bodywise.
if you can answer all of these questions i would so appreciate it.
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I think one problem I've noticed just in your question is that you seem indecisive to things. You say you're not gorgeous, but pretty you guess, but not super model gorgeous... That kind of unsure, in the middle, flip flop attitude won't attract quality people to you. Before you try to sell yourself to someone else, you have to believe in yourself first. So my first piece of advice would be to work on your confidence and self esteem.
With indecisiveness comes indifference, and that's where the guy that talked to your friend picked up that uninterested vibe. I'm guessing that you lack assertiveness, which is why even though you want to be dating you're not dating. You need to work on yourself. You need to get some confidence and some assertiveness and put yourself out there. Let the world know that you're going to get what you want no matter what. You don't let things around you impact you, you impact the things around you.
Once you have a more take charge attitude, guys will see that you are a catch. When you begin to find yourself attractive and appealing (and you don't guess it - you know it!) everyone else will realize how attractive you are too. Beauty comes from within, and right now you're in a place that's insecure and off putting. Lucky for you, that can be changed with practice. This book can help you:
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Guys like girls who are confident and secure. A little insecurity can be cute, but getting into any kind of relationship when you don't even know your own self worth is a huge mistake. You have to love yourself before anyone else will love you. You seem really sweet, so I don't think it'd be hard to love you at all. Just make some adjustments to your attitude and the way you view yourself and the world. Instead of waiting for what you want, go get it! You'll be happy you did. :)
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ok flirting is the best thing to do if you wanna get there attention. just like sit next to him maybe lean close in, even hold his hald at times
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