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Question Posted Tuesday July 3 2007, 2:27 pm

Hey sexy!
its me again! ;-)
...well, i have a question about guys....... since you are one.. and what a guy you are!
well, would you say that guys ever really let go of their ex's???
or are they often reminded of them?
Because my friend is expiencing some similar problems with her bf, and asked me... but what do i know about a guys way of thinking???? right? wtf?
so, whats you're input sexy?
Ur the greatest!
I would IM you to ask you one on one... but you never seem to be on :-( so sad.....
maybe soon though ;-)
thanx for the advice in advance!

oh.. and its not just for ex's but old crushes too! I know a girls perspective on the ossue, but dunno if guys r the same. thanx!


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LSRGrayson answered Tuesday July 3 2007, 3:40 pm:
Hey again!

I'm very flattered that you think so highly of me, I'd hate to let you down, but I'm just one man, but I do try my best. As for guys letting go of their ex's, it really depends on the guy, the length of the relationship, and how much it meant to them. Some guys easily get over their ex's, some that are longer relationships stick with them for a while, there are just different factors. I know that I've personally moved on past my ex's and am solid rooted in my current relationship and its future. As for old crushes, yeah, most guys tend to move on past them..and yes, even movie star crushes fade in time, and those are more of fantasies, unattainable fantasies, so not to worry there. So to your friend with the bf troubles, time heals all wounds. There was a time when I was still wounded and remembered my first girlfriend who screwed me up, but my current girlfriend helped me get over it and restored my self-confidence. So being supportive to your guy can really help bring him around too, if he is in a hurt way. If he is still pining over her, then it may be a lost cause.

And as for not being online, I'm currently on an internship in Santa Fe, and the only real internet access I get is from my workstation back at the switchboard, and it doesn't have AIM or AOL, but I try to access my email at least twice per shift when I'm not answering phones. So email is always good for contacting me, or the advicenator's site. Hope I was able to help out!

Jordan (jordan.j.hunter@okstate.edu)

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