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a guy & a friend
last night, sabine, from around 11 PM to 3 AM, my friend and i [not in a chatroom, in two separate IM windows] were talking to my sort of crush. he was just someone that i thought was hot, but slightly had feelings for.
i would make silly comments after my friend would copy & paste something he said, like, "omg he's so hot" or "<3" & she copy & pasted everythingg to him.
well. one thing led to another. and my friend told him that she knew someone that liked him. and he was guessing and guessing. and i was talking about him to my friend. [she was copying & pasting what he was saying] and he guessed me, but when the conversation first started i told him i liked another guy. so he immediately kept going, but my friend gave a hint that it was me!
so, he IMs me and we're talking and i try to cover up what i said to my friend by saying, "why would i have told you i liked that other guy if i liked you?" so he was thoroughly confused. but he said that i can't hide anything because my friend copy & pasted everything i said to her.
well, the conversation last night was extremely awkward. and now my 'guyfriend' probably dislikes me more than ever.
i tried explaining it, but the more i tried to say the truth the worse & more awkward the conversation got.
is there ANYTHING i can say to him? do? should i just drop it? can you please make me feel better about all this? i need a hug.
thanks in advance.
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Yikes! At fourteen, everything's confusing, isn't it? The only solution to the confusion that I know of is to tell the truth.
I would tell my crush in person, or if I couldn't do it that way on IM, that I really was the person who liked him, but when he guessed, I got nervous, panicked, and denied it. I would say that I was afraid to put my feelings out there. I would apologize for lying.
But now you should be totally honest with him that you do like him. No playing games. That does not lead to good relationships.
Best of luck.
Sabine
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