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Drugs are ruining everything.


Question Posted Friday June 29 2007, 8:44 pm

I'm 22 years old. I live in PA. I met my recently x boyfriend on a dating site back in january. We started to talk a lot and I fell in love with him. He lives in New York. Well he told me he'd never met someone that he'd had so much in common with before and that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me and everything. Well, things kinda changed a little when he had to move to Wyoming for work. Well, I figured if I had money I'd go out to see him, and if not, it was ok, because he'd be back on the East Coast in September. Well a couple weeks ago he told me he was on drugs. We had a huge fight because I hate drugs, but we resolved everything. So anyway, today he told me he wanted to take a break and date. I totally just lost it. I couldn't understand why he would want to date anyone else if he wanted to "spend the rest of his life with me." So anyway, the next thing I know he's screaming at me and telling me to leave him alone. I asked him if he was still on drugs, and he said, "It's none of your fucking business, it's my personal business. I don't ask you if you're on drugs because that's your life." This coming from the guy who told me he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. So anyway, he started making me feel liek shit telling me how he had a date tonight and everything. I just don't know what to do, my heart's totally broken and no one understands. What should I do?

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SOUPBOWLERGINA answered Friday June 29 2007, 10:00 pm:
He's not worth your time. It's sweet that he says he wants to spend the rest of his life with you, but he has to show it. Also, if you're looking for someone to spend the rest of your life with, you don't want anyone on drugs. They have to be able to support you and any potential children you might have. I say you should dump him. You'll find someone else who is clean and has a good head on their shoulders.

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