my best guy friend is leaving on wednesday to go to the philipines(where he's from) for five weeks. we went out last summer for like two months and i never got over him. i know he still cares about me and were the best of friends. everyone thinks he likes me and im pretty sure its true. ive tried to move on but i think theres always gunna be something there between us. anyways, we're going to hang out before he leaves. im not sure if it will be just us or with a group but im thinking of kissing him before he leaves because im going to miss him. i dont know if this is a good idea because i dont know how he'll take it. if i give him a hug and kiss after we hang out do you think he will get the wrong idea; like i wanna go out with him? i dont want him to think that cause i dont want to mess up the friendship. sorry its long and thanks if you read it!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Michelley answered Monday June 25 2007, 7:44 pm: Do it at the begining! Just lean in and do it. See what his reaction is and then be like "I've wanted to kiss you again for the longest time and I just had to do it before you leave" He's either going to be like "I don't like you like that" and you can have fun with him while you're hanging out and just forget it happened. He's probably going to think its sweet, though, and then the rest of the time you're hanging out you can kiss all you want!! If you wait till you're about to leave, then the whole time hes gone you're going to wonder what he was thinking and how he felt about the kiss.......so if you do it at the begining of your date or hang out or whatever then you can have time to talk about it and everything. Just be like, "I like kissing you, but I don't think we could date" if he says anything about dating. Just don't let it mess up your friendship. Dont let things get awkward and just HAVE FUN! you don't have anything to loose!! if hes truly your best guy friend, nothing can get between you
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