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my boyfriend and his ex
14/f
sorry this is long;
my boyfriend says that he doesn't take his ex's back, but this one time me & him broke up and like 11 hours later we got back together. i was the first girlfriend he got back together with. turns out i was basically the first out of everything, besides being the first girlfriend. but he's already planning to marry me.. to me.. OHH YEAHH its kinda early for that.. but i guess that js says he likes me alot... right? but he started talking to his ex again.. and before he told me a LiST of things he doesn't like about her.. and sometimes everyday i hear her name at least ONCE. out of the BLUE. -_____-" because his ex and i don't get along... me & her used to be best friends but then she talked about me behind her back for a couple of years now. but we finally became non-friends this year. and others still tell me that she talked about me behind my back. but my boyfriend said that she stopped along time ago.. even she told him herself. but i'm not sure if she's saying that because he's my boyfriend. and she was talking behind my back in front of him and he didn't even notice. (my boyfriend's kinda slow in the head) so i don't really know what to believe anymore.. but i'm pretty sure she didn't stop talkking behind my back A LONG time ago. because she's been for a while. like a few days ago, she aimed OUR friend up and told him that i was a bad girlfriend and that i was a bitch. -______-" and that person told me. but the person she told i can't trust him that much either.. cause he seemed a bit bipolar to me when he was telling me about my boyfriend's ex and then he got happy then got mad again. he's basically two faced... between me & her he's two faced..
ex: he told me i was his bestfriend and then he messaged her and asked if she hated him. and she said "i don't hate you." and then he said "oh, because mary said that i should be her bestfriend & etc." ...... wtf?!
but then yet... he also tells me the truth sometimes.. like she started cussing him out for backing me up, and then she'd tell my boyfriend that she doesn't really like him. but either way that pisses me off. because she talks about EVERYONE behind their back... so i'm not so sure what to believe anymore.. my sister says that i should be careful because a girl like her is close to my boyfriend and thats my enemy i might get heartbroken, and i don't want to lose him like what she did BEFORE. -______-" help me please?
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okay. i agree with your sister. seeing how she is your worst enemy you shouldn't trust anyone she hangs out with. besides. if your boyfriend knows you and her don't get along then he shouldn't be talking to her. a good boyfriend would respect your wishes and not hang out with her. and if he can't do that... then he isn't worthy to be your boyfriend.
hope this helped,
Caitlin
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ask her what her problem is and ask your boyfriend why hes always talking about her
you should just try to get that onefriend out of it cause she seems like hes messin some stuffup
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