ok here it goes.
I have this friend.
A guy friend, who I went out with
on and off for about a year maybe?
but anyways..
I dumped him for this other guy
and it totally didn't work out.
So then he went out with a girl,
and it also didn't work out.
Now I really like him again,
and I don't know what he thinks of me.
I've told him how I feel,
but he just shys away.
And I've hinted to him that I want another chance,
but he dosen't really respond?
So how should I let him know I'm really ready to commit to him this time.
How can I let him know that I'm not gonig to dump him for someone else again.
Because I tried to just let him go,
But I've had these feelings for hi msince last May.
any suggestions?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Cux answered Sunday June 24 2007, 9:37 pm: If you've told him, and he shys you away. If you've hinted and he didn't respond, I would tell him just once more time. You could write a letter, email, or whatever. If he's not responding, you have to move on. I know you're thinking that "he's my everything and I can't just let him go". Well I know for a fact that you will meet another guy who you'll think is 10 times better. Trust me, don't stress about one guy. Most are pigs anyway. I'm a guy, and even I know that.
Good Luck!
viciousxpunk answered Sunday June 24 2007, 9:27 pm: if you feel like it would be too difficult to talk to him in person, the best way to let him know is to write him a handwritten letter. this is a good choice because you can make sure you get to say everything you want to say, and you dont have to worry about his immediate reaction. also if he has a letter, he can reread it if he wants too, and can take some time to think about it, unlikeif you confronted him, when he may feel pressured to answer right away. make sure to include everything you said in your question, about how much you like him and are ready to commit, and how you wont dump him for another girl. good luck! [ viciousxpunk's advice column | Ask viciousxpunk A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.