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parents HATE bff.
posted a question about this a few days ago.
"parents dont like bff"
background info: ryan is 6 years older than me and i am the godmother of his daughter grace. Ryan is always there for me when i need him and his daughter continues to be the reason im here. He's married and totally dedicated to his wife. promise.
situation: mom went behind my back and got my hours switched at work so that i cant be here for graces 2nd birthday. Grace and ryans wife are on vacation at the moment and arent coming back until the 1st. we had it planned so where we were gone for two weeks and coming back on the first too. and i would be here for her birthday on the 4th of july.
the original plan was to have the last week in june off and work the first week of july. mom got it switched. and they are forcing me to go to alabama with them and miss my goddaughters birthday. thats how much they hate ryan and his family. i still got grace this adorable outfit, but i dont know how im going to get it to her because they wont let me have contact with any of their family. i used to have him come over to the house to talk with me when mom and dad werent home (like last summer) but i work now so im never home alone. (when he came over, he brought his wife too.)
like i said last time, his family means the world to me. especially his little girl. she tells me she loves me. :]]
theres no way i can get out of going to alabama. i wansnt there for her first birthday because they hadnt moved back down yet and now i wont be here for her second either. im not going to see her for like a month. i was gone, now they are gone, and then im leaving again, too. its just so messed up. i miss them like crazy.
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Your parents really have no right to do something like that. You are a grown woman, you can make your own decisions.
First, you should talk to your boss about your hours getting switched, see to it that your mom cannot switch your hours
Second, tell your parents that you are grown up, and they need to back the fuck off. Of course, tell them in more polite terms, but make the message just as strong.
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you didnt say why they hated him so muchh. and you sound like an adult or older i think you should just be like mom dad this is my life im not a little girl any more this is my goddaughter and im not missing anymore of her life then i already have.
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