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lonely/miserable
almost 15/f (already stopped growing/developing/maturing,etc.)
I'm a lonely "desperate" teenage girl. I have no friends, exept I sort of have two, but i never see them because one lives really far away from me and we used to talk online all the time but now she just talks to this stupid pothead boy and never talks to me anymore. She hasn't even had a date with him but she thinks she's his "girlfriend". My other friend is a boy, but he's gay, and he has a life so i rarely see him or talk to him.
I don't have/can't get a boyfriend, i used to have a lot of people who i talked to online (who i met through friends so i knew they were safe) who were interested in seeing me but of course they all just rejected me before it even began. :'(
Why is it that no one wants to date me?
I had a boy call me and ask me out but he had asburger's syndrome so that didn't work out.
I also asked another guy (and a few other guys at different times who all rejected me) out and we went to a movie and i kissed him on the cheek at the end. (then he rejected me too)
And i've had phone sex a lot with a couple diff. people, but that's all i've done.
I have a really beautiful face and my hair is strikingly gorgeous but i don't have an attitude, i'm just a nice, open person with a great sense of humor. Why don't people ask me out? I look much older than I am.
Why is everyone automatically unattracted to me?
I'm so fed up with everything in life. I feel like i'm caught in a pit that I can't get out of, and i've been severely depressed about everything and that hasn't changed.
I'd appreciate any advice on how to get through life. Even though I haven't had any really bad tragedies, I'm still unhappy. I can't seem to change that though.
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hey its ok. rough patches suck. trust me i can relate, my girlfriend dumped me for my best friend today and my mind is a mental soup of confusion and sometimes rage. when you get down you shouldn't think about the boys who rejected you, you should think about the boys you havn't met yet. it ok to feel unhappy but it not ok to let it drive your life.
P.S. if you ever want to talk you can e-mail me and i'll give you my number. or we can e-mail whenever. just know that im here for you.
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Things get rough. You are going throgh a rough patch in your life right now. You'll be sixteen soon and things change a lot in your life. Rejection happens hon. Iy sucks but it happens. Don't try and worry about fnding a guy or whoever. Let them find you. Stop searching. Try to do something that makes you feel goos about yourself. You are perfectly fine! Stop worrying about yourself. Be thankful for things that you have. Don't try and please anyone. Try having an opptimistic attitude daily. Evenv though I'm sure it's rough. And if you have another bad day then message me. I'll be delighted to chat and help make you feel better. I'm sorry your sad right now. Things will get better. It can't get any worse. Good luck hon. =]
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