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my boyfriend..
my friend saw some girl on his profile on myspace
like the whole ilysfm jazz.
and i asked him why hed cheat on me.
and he said he isnt.
i dont know what to believe.
i even went on hers an she had his picture too saying how much SHE loves him.
i love him alot.
im really hurt.
i pretend to him that it was okay
[we didnt breakup]
i just pretended i was reassured.
why cant he be honest with me?
what do i do?
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i know it seems really tough, but are u sure he likes her like THAT? He may not be cheating...he could just love her like a sis. But if you're sure it's not sisterly love, then go up to him (or invite him over your house so he cannot just walk away) and tell him your exact feelings. Say, "Are you cheating on me?" and if he says "no" again, then say, "why does it look like you like this girl on your myspace?" and show him his page. See what he says. And then ask why this girl seems to like HIM. If you have enough evidence against him,(and keep asking questions without ACCUSING him) he should either have some pretty darn good excuses or should tell you he's cheating. If he is, then do what feels best. Don't break up with him right then and there, though...I think you should wait until you have a chance to think about what you really want and if you are willing to forgive him. If you decide to give him another chance, make him promise to you that he won't cheat and figure out with him what will happen with the other girl. Hate to say it, but before you give him another chance, say who do you want, me or her? It would be heartbreaking if he said her, but at least you'll know that you won't be lied to anymore, because you deserve an honest boyfriend who doesn't cheat. Good luck!
-SlushPuppy
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