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Confused.
I liked this guy for a while & we hung out at parties and talked online & stuff. I have not really dated in a while becuase i think the whole concept of dating at my age is just too much work & I was going to start serious dating in highschool. I wanted to have sort of a friends with benifits thing with the guys i liked. You know, no pressure & such. Well the guy i liked called me up and asked me out and i was kinda stuck becuase i liked him and if i said no, then it wuold have ruined my chances of any sort of relationship with him, so i said yes. I guess now im okay with going out with him but I don't know. I'm not like crazy liking him like some of the other people i have liked and i just don't have the desire to kiss him and stuff even though i do like him in that way. It's really weird. I can't explain why this is, I need your help.. Is it becuase its summer and i just want to have a good time? I just don't know what to do, i feel stuck. Thanks =]
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I think that saying yes to him ruined your plans of being friends with benifits with him or any other guy. You should give him a chance. Just because you don't have the desire to kiss him now doesn't mean you'll continue to feel that way about him. All though it's summer, I can't tell you if the reason is because you just want to have a good time. You're the only one that knows answeres to your own questions. If you continue to lose interest in this guy, stay friends with him. You both might of moved too fast and you just might not be ready. See how things go and go from there.
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