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Friends with benefits
So, I like this guy. And I've liked him for a while, but he isnt interested in a relationship right now. He's looking for hook-ups. But, he did tell me that he would be interested in a short, free, relationship. So, I asked him if he wanted to have one of those relationships. This turned into him wanting to be friends with benefits. I stupidly agreed, and now we've been going on dates. He really wants to make out with me. Here's the problem, folks- I DONT KNOW HOW TO MAKE OUT WITH SOMEONE. I've never done it before. I've had boyfriends, but they havent pressured me to do that. Now, dont get me wrong, I like the guy, and I want to make out with him. Can someone just tell me how? PS: i'm 15/f
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Ok, here's my advice and you won't like it. Ditch the guy who just wants "friends with benefits". Making out comes natural, especially when you and the boy really really like each other. YOu won't need instructions.
Wait until you meet someone who really wants to be with you and make you happy.
When this guy has used up your benefits, he is going to find a new friend with benefits. And it won't feel nice. I give him credit for being honest, but that is all the more reason to avoid him. It is going to hurt when he dumps you before you are ready, and there's not much you can do about it because you agreed. If it's not working, it's because there us "nothing there". YOu want more from a relationship. Don't settle.
I hope you follow this advice. And it doesn't matter to me what you rate this advice, I know it is good.
Michele
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To make out, you two have to be relaxed and comfortable with each other. When you two are ready, tilt your head to either side, left or right so your noses don't get in the way. Open your mouth slightly as it touches his and stick your tongue in his mouth as he sticks his tongue in yours. Massage his tongue gently with your tongue and try to close your eyes when you make out. It makes it more romantic. Friends with benefits in my opinion is kind of weird. But the making out part is easy, I assure you. Just know when to do it, and it'll come NATURALLY =) It will. And just go for it. There's no such thing as a bad kisser ... who has never kissed before, who knows, you might be a really good kisser :] I hope my advice helps you!! Take care!
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