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ex-boyfriend =( oook..so my boyfriend and i recently broke up.he had been avoiding all my calls and messages, i had no reason why.he finally answered my call and after talking to him for awhile it seemed as if i didn't even know him.so then we decided to call it quits bkuz he was away and yeah, he just wouldn't have any time.liikke a week later i saw him on myspace and i decided to try and talk to him .. i got no response back..i just thought okkk..its whatever.i'm not going to get pissed off about it..but then he deletes my comments and i flip out on him - i feel horrible now but i don't want to call him or talk to him bkuz i'm afraid that he might think that i'm being too clingy and yeah..so i have nooo clue of what to do..do you think you could help me please hun???
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he's being a jerk =[
It's alright to still want to talk to him,
and I know how you feel.
I went through this, and still kinda am.
I want to be friends with my ex
for the same reason you do
He means something to you.
You don't want to lose him.
He's like, a aprt of you.
And that's ok.sorry if I sound cliche XD
First, call him up and apologize for flipping out.
Just explain that it hurts you when he ignores you because you don't want it to be this way.
Just casually im him or something.
Like, "Hey Haven't talked to you for awhile. what's up?"
and if he deletes your comments and stuff, who cares.
maybe he just can't see what a great person you really are :]
But just try talking to him,
and maybe invite him to go to the movies or something with you and a group of your friends.
But just give him time.
hope this helps && good luck :] ]
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