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Should she be a girlfriend or a girl that is a friend?
Hellow every one. i am in a little bit of a deal here. you see this is my freshman year and there is this girl that we have become really close friends but not too close that we are like brother and sister. we are always txting each other and talking on the phone. i am doing all the basics like complimenting her like that is a nice shirt, or wow that is a nice picture of you, or i think you should b a model and knowing her interests for example she likes the beach and dancing and doing stuff at random that is really loud and i am always making her laugh. we have so much in common. in english class we have assigned seats and she will go all the way across the room just to sit nxt to me. and when she doesn't do that, when i look over at her she is giggleing and blushes. and i just want to know 2 things is there any thing i can do to make it more clear that she likes me or not and should we stay just friends or be in a relationship.
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when you look over she giggles and blushes? SHE LIKES YOU.
if you are still not clear on this one, more things that could be considered "signs"
she teases you, flirts with you, pokes you ect.
when you catch her eye she quickly looks away
when around you she leans towards you, cocks her head slightly to the side, acts more lightheaded than usual
but yes. From what I read it's still pretty obvious. The only other issue here is do YOU like HER?
Right now you are just friends. For it to be more, both of you have to somehow agree on the fact that you mutually like each other, say by asking her out to the movies, if you do like her. If you don't then you are one of those interesting friendships where one person will just have to live with being an unrequited crush.
Basically, the opportunity is yours, and whether you are gf and bf depends on what you guys decide on.
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I would definetly ask her straight up...do u like me....I mean what could possibly be the worse answer...NO...if she says no...move on and then that way you know just to be friends. I am pretty sure she is loving these comments and texts, if she didn't she wouldnt reply back to you. If you don't like the simple question of..do u like me think of something else to ask that hints at it. Tell her that you really like spending time with her and want to know if she sees a future in the relationship.
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