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thnx for that last advice, it makes total sense!!
but i have another question..
my friend said the only way to get over a dude, is to find someone else to like.
but the thing is, i think i don't have anyone left to like! what should i do to find someone else?
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Hi.
Sorry I took a while to reply to you. Hmm, as for what your friend had said it's not always that simple. I'm sure your aware of the rebound term when it comes to relationships? Most the time, after coming out of a relationship one of the persons will want to hook up with someone asap no matter who it is and even though there are no feelings there (or there might be but they are rarely actually real feelings) it usually just turns out to be a rebound.
I think hooking up with someone else while you're still hurting wouldn't be all that much a good idea. Everyone needs time to sort things out in their head (I've been single over a year now doing just that, lol) but when you feel ready to let go and see other people then by all means go for it. But don't push yourself to like someone if you don't jusgt to get over your heartache because it could tuen out bad.
As for finding someone else, that's easy. You seem a nice enough person so finding someone new won't be too hard at all. :] Just go out, hang out with friends and have a good time. Guys will notice those who are fun to be with a lot more than someone who might be sitting in a corner depressed because the person sitting in a corner depressed will be giving out the signal that they don't want to be there or don't want to talk to anyone and such. Just be yourself and have fun and believe me guys will notice you and come to you. ;) But that said give yourself time as well to get over things. I know it must hurt (it did with me too) and no matter how many times it happens it never does get any easier to go through but they say time is a healer and to an extent it really does.
Good luck with everything and sorry once again for the delay in getting back to you.
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