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confused about feelings.
ok this might be confusing.
ive known this guy since we were about 9-10. now were both 13 and im unsure of him ad my feelings for him. he flirts with me, a LOT, and i flirt back. but this isnt even in person, its online. (hes flirted me when i was at a pool with my friend and he coincidentally showed up, and tried grabbing me and stuff. but never at school or anything, but hes grabbed my butt a few times) but is he using me for his own pleasure? hes even asked for sex in a playful way, but he knows that i wouldnt. he almost never really talks to me at school, but i can always tell hes looking at me, and i really feel like he likes me. but i feel like his 'follow the crowd' feelings are stronger. im not the most popular or the hottest, but i have a nice body and guys flirt with me here and there. but i really think that hes either using me, or just doesnt think im good enough. i cant help but flirt back, and im trying to just ignore him like he does to me sometimes. like reject his flirting. ok so heres what im asking for:
1) what are signs that he likes me or not?
2) do you think hes using me for pleasure?
3) what can i do to just get over him and look for another guy?
ps. im not allowed to date, but ill def. do it secretly (my parents have a thing about guys.)
thanks
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I think the one thing you should bare in mind is that considering his age he will more than likely have his hormones on the blink. Just from everything that you had said it sounds to me like he is just after some fun and maybe even just using you for pleasure. To be painfully honest I don't know anyone who would ask for sex from someone who they just like be it for a joke or not. It just doesn't seem like the kind of think you say to someone you like.
As for getting over him that just comes with time. You've said yourself though that your parents won't allow you to date and given how this guy has been acting I can't say I blame them (their looking out for your well being in the end). You have to remember your parents were both your age ones and they went through what you are now going through (your dad will know exactly what guys are like because younger he may even have been like them once so you do need to understand that they have that rule in place for your own benefit. Otherwise though it really will be up to you but all you really can do is just move on and make it clear to this other guy you're not interested nor do you intend to do anything with him that he might be after. :]
Good luck.
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