|
//Really like this guy...
Hi "thelaura" I'm really good friends with this guy, well thats what he thinks, I actually think I like him a lot more then a friend. He was going out with this girl for about a year and their relationship ended about a month ago, he got over it pretty quickly suprisingly, and i'm not sure what to do, because funny enough he won't believe I really like him (more then a friend) so I don't know what to do! How can I make him realise big time that I actually do like him more then a friend?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
I'm guessing you've actually told him straight out you like him? If not, that is what you need to do!
Maybe he doesn't want to believe you because it might jeapordise your friendship at the moment - Let him know that will not happen and if he doesn't have feelings for you, it will not be a problem and you can continue being friends without the awkwardness.
Does he have feelings back for you? If you're unsure, you could either ask him yourself or get another friend to casually ask him.
Make some plans to go places together, call him randomly for a chat or something.
This may sound weird, but everyone has their own "personal space". To tell if he's really comfortable with you, try standing really close to him to see if he moves away. Or "accidently" brush his arm/leg/etc to see if his reaction is to let you do it, or be a little freaked out and perhaps move away.
If you can get past his personal space, without being too annoying and doing it alot, it is a good sign if he doesn't step back.
Be more open with your body language and when you talk to him, remain eye contact.
There are lots of ways to hint you actually like someone, but he could mistake it for you being a very good friend.
Telling is the best method and you can't go wrong.
If you'd like further help, feel free to contact me. :)
I hope it works out for you!
]
More Questions: |