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help pls (pt 2)


Question Posted Thursday May 24 2007, 1:47 pm


Hi,

Thanks soo much for your help/advice earlier. I actually had a talk with him last nite via msn... so Im going to paste it here for you to see and judge..

Hey God! Will you keep my Baby safe?, Protect him from all harm, And give him strength and amazing grace,Tell him that I love him says:
do you want to play 20 questions?

brown sugar says:
not really
how was your day

Hey God! Will you keep my Baby safe?, Protect him from all harm, And give him strength and amazing grace,Tell him that I love him says:
it was pretty good.. quite bz.. had all the managers come in from the diff branches for meetings all day
had to attend to them while I was there.. even though I left early.. had to do what I cude
mind if I give you a call now?

brown sugar says:
remember talking about taking it slow

Hey God! Will you keep my Baby safe?, Protect him from all harm, And give him strength and amazing grace,Tell him that I love him says:
ok.. can I ask you something seriously..
ok you want to take things slowly. I agree. but how are we going to get to know one another if we dont stay in contact.. tell me?

brown sugar says:
ok
you are acting really weird
if you were on a date with someone would you stay in contact with that person all the time
if you liked him
i want to know you
but you are acting obsesive
you can't talk this over
ok

Hey God! Will you keep my Baby safe?, Protect him from all harm, And give him strength and amazing grace,Tell him that I love him says:
im here
if you liked them you wud want to talk to them and get 2 know them as much as you can

brown sugar says:
ok, who is your babie

Hey God! Will you keep my Baby safe?, Protect him from all harm, And give him strength and amazing grace,Tell him that I love him says:
and plus we are cities away.. wudnt that make you want to talk more as to if we were close
oh its a line from a movie
see when you are close to someone aka same town you talk less. when you are far away from someone you want to talk to them more

brown sugar says:
remember you said the worst thing inthe world when we were together

Hey God! Will you keep my Baby safe?, Protect him from all harm, And give him strength and amazing grace,Tell him that I love him says:
yes i rem that

brown sugar says:
i still think about it
and the way you were talking this morning
you know what,lets end it

Hey God! Will you keep my Baby safe?, Protect him from all harm, And give him strength and amazing grace,Tell him that I love him says:
i just got a lil upset cause after you said dont worry well talk and then you dissapeared it felt like you didnt wanna know me

brown sugar says:
because you are the opposite lately that i knew and liked

Hey God! Will you keep my Baby safe?, Protect him from all harm, And give him strength and amazing grace,Tell him that I love him says:
no lets not end it
i agree we shud go slow..

brown sugar says:
when did i dissappear

Hey God! Will you keep my Baby safe?, Protect him from all harm, And give him strength and amazing grace,Tell him that I love him says:
i want 2 get to know you the rite way
not wrong way as i had been supposedly been doing lately

brown sugar says:
you are acting weird
u said you don't get attached
and you are

Hey God! Will you keep my Baby safe?, Protect him from all harm, And give him strength and amazing grace,Tell him that I love him says:
Im sorry for acing weird
but we used to talk alot and I miss our talks.. thats all

brown sugar says:
i miss it to but you got to remember, that you said that thing
its hard to forget

Hey God! Will you keep my Baby safe?, Protect him from all harm, And give him strength and amazing grace,Tell him that I love him says:
i do rem

brown sugar says:
im sorry, im trying to forget, but its hard

Hey God! Will you keep my Baby safe?, Protect him from all harm, And give him strength and amazing grace,Tell him that I love him says:
It’s not a big deal. It was just a question. You asked me that as well.

brown sugar says:
you upset me

Hey God! Will you keep my Baby safe?, Protect him from all harm, And give him strength and amazing grace,Tell him that I love him says:
I sorry for that, but you talked about it too.
and I want to make things works btw us..
so im gonn back off

brown sugar says:
i want to get to know you, but we have to take things slow

Hey God! Will you keep my Baby safe?, Protect him from all harm, And give him strength and amazing grace,Tell him that I love him says:
deal

brown sugar says:
i want to actually meet you
and see

Hey God! Will you keep my Baby safe?, Protect him from all harm, And give him strength and amazing grace,Tell him that I love him says:
i know me too.. and that will happen soon

brown sugar says:
and hang out with you
but it is up to you

Hey God! Will you keep my Baby safe?, Protect him from all harm, And give him strength and amazing grace,Tell him that I love him says:
ok
im backing off
if you need to contact me you can.. il always be here.. I just wont piss you off with calls and txt msgs etc..

brown sugar says:
why are you acting like this

Hey God! Will you keep my Baby safe?, Protect him from all harm, And give him strength and amazing grace,Tell him that I love him says:
what do you mean?
you said i was being weird and obsessive. so im not goint do that
:D

brown sugar says:
please don't do that
because its not appealing to anyone, unless they are desparent
im not
i want to get to know the person

Hey God! Will you keep my Baby safe?, Protect him from all harm, And give him strength and amazing grace,Tell him that I love him says:
so tell me.. what do you want me to do..

brown sugar says:
and you are saying the wrong things all the time for last past three days

Hey God! Will you keep my Baby safe?, Protect him from all harm, And give him strength and amazing grace,Tell him that I love him says:
brb i think im gonna throw up
hold on pls

brown sugar says:
why are you throwing up

Hey God! Will you keep my Baby safe?, Protect him from all harm, And give him strength and amazing grace,Tell him that I love him says:
k i back

brown sugar says:
another turn off

Hey God! Will you keep my Baby safe?, Protect him from all harm, And give him strength and amazing grace,Tell him that I love him says:
i ate something today
that didnt settle well in me tummy
now I feel sick

brown sugar says:
im sorry

Hey God! Will you keep my Baby safe?, Protect him from all harm, And give him strength and amazing grace,Tell him that I love him says:
sorry for what sweetie?
its not your faults its the food

brown sugar says:
for being sick

Hey God! Will you keep my Baby safe?, Protect him from all harm, And give him strength and amazing grace,Tell him that I love him says:
ohh ya.. no worries.. i'll be btr in a few days
no more chicken sandwich at mcdonalds.

brown sugar says:
listen, we have to get together, before our relationship grows
and if want this relationship to work, you have come here

Hey God! Will you keep my Baby safe?, Protect him from all harm, And give him strength and amazing grace,Tell him that I love him says:
y before?

brown sugar says:
because i am so confused about you

Hey God! Will you keep my Baby safe?, Protect him from all harm, And give him strength and amazing grace,Tell him that I love him says:
and with time.. sweetie.. you gotta know all you can about me first then we decide if I should come
neways... wat are your plans for tonite?

brown sugar says:
i am heading out
i have hockey
at 10
brown sugar says:
anyways i have to get ready
ttyl
Hey God! Will you keep my Baby safe?, Protect him from all harm, And give him strength and amazing grace,Tell him that I love him says:
okie... talk to u tomm?


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AskJR answered Thursday May 24 2007, 2:03 pm:
Sounds like he wants to meet you and likes you but the "conversation" really threw him. He hasn't recovered yet.

It might not be just the conversation topic itself as much as the concern of your sexuality and fantasies that bothers him. Like are you normal and have normal fantasies, or are you weird and have unusal sexual fantasies that he finds offensive and discernable...

He has his ideas and ways, and you gave him hint and cause to be concerned you might not gel together in that area. Everything else he obviously likes.

Remember, guys are more sexual creatures than females. They have set ideas and likes and dislikes. Women are more opened to ideas.

You might have made him worry about you having a "wild side" that he doesn't want to be a part of. Maybe his idea of sexuality for a woman is subdued, gentle, demure, shyish, and/or tamer. More feminine-- not a wildcat.

Continue on and DROP the topic. Get him to agree to drop the topic from now on. Don't go there.

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